Upgrade the Golang Dependencies

[vitess-bot]

This Pull Request updates all the Golang dependencies to their latest version using go get -u ./....
The exception is dd-trace-go.v1 which we pin to v1.69.1 because all versions after that have goroutine leaks that fail our unit tests.
cc @vitessio/release

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[deepthi]

h/t @frouioui for pointing me to #17803 (comment)

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Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 67.49%. Comparing base (421aca0) to head (f87667a).
Report is 3 commits behind head on main.

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