chore: update deps and adopt shared tooling

[jan-kubica]

Summary

• update Bun and Rust dependencies
• adopt @stll TypeScript and oxlint shared tooling
• fix strict typing/lint findings surfaced by the shared config

Validation

• bun run lint
• bun run typecheck
• bun test test/index.spec.ts
• bun run test:props
• bun run build:js
• cargo check
• bun pm untrusted

[gemini-code-assist]

Code Review

This pull request migrates the project's linting and TypeScript configurations to use shared configurations (@stll/oxlint-config and @stll/typescript-config), replacing the static configuration files with a new oxlint.config.ts and extending the shared TS config in tsconfig.json. It also updates various dependencies in package.json, bun.lock, and Cargo.lock. In src/core.ts, the normalizePatterns function is refactored to accept readonly unknown[] and perform more robust runtime type checks on the input patterns. Feedback suggests adding an explicit Array.isArray check at the beginning of normalizePatterns to prevent runtime iterator errors when called from JavaScript.