use bindings for native lib require

[farfromrefug]

This PR just use bindings to load the native lib. Also renames the native lib.
It's useful for people trying to use webpack.
Used by a lot of libs right now

[jongear]

Since this repo appears to be abandoned, I took the liberty of cloning over the existing repo and implementing this PR (clobberos/xpc-connect#3) for a package I called xpc-connect. The package is available on npm to use

npm install xpc-connect
https://www.npmjs.com/package/xpc-connect

Thanks so much for this @farfromrefug 👏

[rzr]

May this project be transfered to @abandonware team ?

Relate-to: https://abandonware.github.io/