ddl(ticdc): support restoring add index statements with pre-split option (#11926)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #11926

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #11927

TiDB PR: pingcap/tidb#58408

What is changed and how it works?

• Upgrade TiDB & parser dependency.
• Add a test for special comment.

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)

Questions

Will it cause performance regression or break compatibility?

No

Do you need to update user documentation, design documentation or monitoring documentation?

No

Release note

None

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Test name	Commit	Details	Required	Rerun command
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pull-verify	1c8cae4	link	true	/test pull-verify
pull-dm-integration-test	1c8cae4	link	true	/test pull-dm-integration-test
pull-cdc-integration-mysql-test	1c8cae4	link	true	/test pull-cdc-integration-mysql-test
pull-cdc-integration-storage-test	1c8cae4	link	true	/test pull-cdc-integration-storage-test
pull-cdc-integration-kafka-test	1c8cae4	link	true	/test pull-cdc-integration-kafka-test
pull-cdc-integration-pulsar-test	1c8cae4	link	true	/test pull-cdc-integration-pulsar-test
pull-dm-compatibility-test	1c8cae4	link	true	/test pull-dm-compatibility-test

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