Make cufinufft compiles with CUDA 12 on Windows #519

Job	Run time
prepare	5s
Build with Pip (ubuntu-22.04, 3.8, llvm, -march=native)	1m 30s
Build with Pip (ubuntu-22.04, 3.8, llvm, -march=x86-64)	1m 51s
Build with Pip (ubuntu-22.04, 3.8, gcc, -march=native)	1m 38s
Build with Pip (ubuntu-22.04, 3.8, gcc, -march=x86-64)	1m 30s
Build with Pip (ubuntu-22.04, 3.11, llvm, -march=native)	1m 11s
Build with Pip (ubuntu-22.04, 3.11, llvm, -march=x86-64)	3m 39s
Build with Pip (ubuntu-22.04, 3.11, gcc, -march=native)	1m 9s
Build with Pip (ubuntu-22.04, 3.11, gcc, -march=x86-64)	1m 33s
Build with Pip (windows-2022, 3.8, msvc, /arch:AVX2)	12m 0s
Build with Pip (windows-2022, 3.8, msvc, /arch:SSE2)	11m 22s
Build with Pip (windows-2022, 3.8, llvm, /arch:AVX2)	12m 25s
Build with Pip (windows-2022, 3.8, llvm, /arch:SSE2)	12m 13s
Build with Pip (windows-2022, 3.11, msvc, /arch:AVX2)	11m 13s
Build with Pip (windows-2022, 3.11, msvc, /arch:SSE2)	12m 20s
Build with Pip (windows-2022, 3.11, llvm, /arch:AVX2)	12m 12s
Build with Pip (windows-2022, 3.11, llvm, /arch:SSE2)	12m 34s
Build with Pip (macos-13, 3.8, llvm, -march=native)	4m 5s
Build with Pip (macos-13, 3.8, llvm, -march=x86-64)	2m 43s
Build with Pip (macos-13, 3.8, gcc-14, -march=native)	2m 1s
Build with Pip (macos-13, 3.8, gcc-14, -march=x86-64)	1m 54s
Build with Pip (macos-13, 3.11, llvm, -march=native)	3m 30s
Build with Pip (macos-13, 3.11, llvm, -march=x86-64)	3m 53s
Build with Pip (macos-13, 3.11, gcc-14, -march=native)	1m 57s
Build with Pip (macos-13, 3.11, gcc-14, -march=x86-64)	1m 46s
	2h 12m 14s

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