[Feature][shade]Refactor the seatunnel-shade module.

[hawk9821]

Purpose of this pull request

Remove the seatunnel-shade module into seatunnel-shade project.
The seatunnel-shade module rarely changes, so there's no need for it to be released every time alongside seatunnel. The release of seatunnel-shade-related JARs will be handled by the seatunnel-shade project, and seatunnel can simply reference the corresponding JARs from the Maven Central Repository.

Does this PR introduce any user-facing change?

How was this patch tested?

Check list

• If any new Jar binary package adding in your PR, please add License Notice according
  New License Guide
• If necessary, please update the documentation to describe the new feature. https://github.com/apache/seatunnel/tree/dev/docs
• If you are contributing the connector code, please check that the following files are updated:
  1. Update plugin-mapping.properties and add new connector information in it
  2. Update the pom file of seatunnel-dist
  3. Add ci label in label-scope-conf
  4. Add e2e testcase in seatunnel-e2e
  5. Update connector plugin_config