support TORCH_CUDA_ARCH_LIST and avoid link against libcuda.so at compile time

[winggan]

• support TORCH_CUDA_ARCH_LIST
  support TORCH_CUDA_ARCH_LIST so we can compile wheel in a non-GPU environment, making it more convenient to working with CI/CD and prebuilt binary distirbution

now we can build SageAttention in a cpu-only environment using (as an example):

CUDA_HOME=/path/to/cuda-x.y TORCH_CUDA_ARCH_LIST='8.0;9.0+PTX' python3 setup.py bdist_wheel

• avoid link against libcuda.so
  libcuda.so (the driver API) is not available in a non-GPU environment, so we should avoid directly link against it at compile time.
  NVIDIA has offered a standard way to access driver API via cudaGetDriverEntryPointByVersion (or previously cudaGetDriverEntryPoint) to dynamically load and call driver API

[firofame]

@winggan Thanks man it worked!! can you keep your branch updated please

for anyone who wants try this PR:
.run_commands('TORCH_CUDA_ARCH_LIST="8.9" pip install --use-pep517 --no-build-isolation git+https://github.com/winggan/SageAttention.git@patch-1')

[winggan]

@winggan Thanks man it worked!! can you keep your branch updated please

for anyone who wants try this PR: .run_commands('TORCH_CUDA_ARCH_LIST="8.9" pip install --use-pep517 --no-build-isolation git+https://github.com/winggan/SageAttention.git@patch-1')

it has been a while since I created this PR which should cover most compile time issue at that time.

could you please explain briefly what has been updated by now and how can I help you, because I haven't been keeping up with the project updates for a while due to work commitments.