CI: intermittent segfaults on `macOS py37_macos` run

[mzeitlin11]

See https://dev.azure.com/pandas-dev/pandas/_build/results?buildId=61339&view=logs&j=b516280a-8c75-541b-8ba0-ae13561718a7&t=a9217cb1-24f6-5625-717d-72085a70e1d3

and https://dev.azure.com/pandas-dev/pandas/_build/results?buildId=61324&view=logs&j=b516280a-8c75-541b-8ba0-ae13561718a7&t=a9217cb1-24f6-5625-717d-72085a70e1d3

for some examples on 2 different runs. I've only noticed it on this run, will look to try to see when it started (unless anyone knows :)

[lithomas1]

@mzeitlin11
Maybe we need to bump pyarrow to 0.17.1 on MacOS? xref https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-8684

[jreback]

sure that would be fine

[jorisvandenbossche]

It seems this started in #41903 (see #41903 (comment)), although nothing in the diff of this PR would explain a new failure, though

[jorisvandenbossche]

The linked Arrow bug was fixed in 0.17.1, and the build is using 0.17.0, so that should be an easy version bump

[jorisvandenbossche]

Attempt at #41948