diff --git a/datafusion/physical-expr/src/expressions/dynamic_filters.rs b/datafusion/physical-expr/src/expressions/dynamic_filters.rs
index fd8b2667259f5..7703d201aaea9 100644
--- a/datafusion/physical-expr/src/expressions/dynamic_filters.rs
+++ b/datafusion/physical-expr/src/expressions/dynamic_filters.rs
@@ -26,7 +26,7 @@ use datafusion_common::{
     tree_node::{Transformed, TransformedResult, TreeNode},
 };
 use datafusion_expr::ColumnarValue;
-use datafusion_physical_expr_common::physical_expr::{DynEq, DynHash};
+use datafusion_physical_expr_common::physical_expr::DynHash;
 
 /// State of a dynamic filter, tracking both updates and completion.
 #[derive(Debug, Clone, Copy, PartialEq, Eq)]
@@ -103,8 +103,11 @@ impl Inner {
 
 impl Hash for DynamicFilterPhysicalExpr {
     fn hash<H: std::hash::Hasher>(&self, state: &mut H) {
-        let inner = self.current().expect("Failed to get current expression");
-        inner.dyn_hash(state);
+        // Use pointer identity of the inner Arc for stable hashing.
+        // This is stable across update() calls and consistent with Eq.
+        // See issue #19641 for details on why content-based hashing violates
+        // the Hash/Eq contract when the underlying expression can change.
+        Arc::as_ptr(&self.inner).hash(state);
         self.children.dyn_hash(state);
         self.remapped_children.dyn_hash(state);
     }
@@ -112,11 +115,13 @@ impl Hash for DynamicFilterPhysicalExpr {
 
 impl PartialEq for DynamicFilterPhysicalExpr {
     fn eq(&self, other: &Self) -> bool {
-        let inner = self.current().expect("Failed to get current expression");
-        let our_children = self.remapped_children.as_ref().unwrap_or(&self.children);
-        let other_children = other.remapped_children.as_ref().unwrap_or(&other.children);
-        let other = other.current().expect("Failed to get current expression");
-        inner.dyn_eq(other.as_any()) && our_children == other_children
+        // Two dynamic filters are equal if they share the same inner source
+        // AND have the same children configuration.
+        // This is consistent with Hash using Arc::as_ptr.
+        // See issue #19641 for details on the Hash/Eq contract violation fix.
+        Arc::ptr_eq(&self.inner, &other.inner)
+            && self.children == other.children
+            && self.remapped_children == other.remapped_children
     }
 }
 
@@ -753,4 +758,106 @@ mod test {
             "Filter should still be used with multiple consumers"
         );
     }
+
+    /// Test that verifies the Hash/Eq contract is now satisfied (issue #19641 fix).
+    ///
+    /// After the fix, Hash uses Arc::as_ptr(&self.inner) which is stable across
+    /// update() calls, fixing the HashMap key instability issue.
+    #[test]
+    fn test_hash_stable_after_update() {
+        use std::collections::hash_map::DefaultHasher;
+        use std::hash::{Hash, Hasher};
+
+        // Create filter with initial value
+        let filter =
+            DynamicFilterPhysicalExpr::new(vec![], lit(true) as Arc<dyn PhysicalExpr>);
+
+        // Compute hash BEFORE update
+        let mut hasher_before = DefaultHasher::new();
+        filter.hash(&mut hasher_before);
+        let hash_before = hasher_before.finish();
+
+        // Update changes the underlying expression
+        filter
+            .update(lit(false) as Arc<dyn PhysicalExpr>)
+            .expect("Update should succeed");
+
+        // Compute hash AFTER update
+        let mut hasher_after = DefaultHasher::new();
+        filter.hash(&mut hasher_after);
+        let hash_after = hasher_after.finish();
+
+        // FIXED: Hash should now be STABLE after update() because we use
+        // Arc::as_ptr for identity-based hashing instead of expression content.
+        assert_eq!(
+            hash_before, hash_after,
+            "Hash should be stable after update() - fix for issue #19641"
+        );
+
+        // Self-equality should still hold
+        assert!(filter.eq(&filter), "Self-equality should hold");
+    }
+
+    /// Test that verifies separate DynamicFilterPhysicalExpr instances
+    /// with the same expression are NOT equal (identity-based comparison).
+    #[test]
+    fn test_identity_based_equality() {
+        // Create two separate filters with identical initial expressions
+        let filter1 =
+            DynamicFilterPhysicalExpr::new(vec![], lit(true) as Arc<dyn PhysicalExpr>);
+        let filter2 =
+            DynamicFilterPhysicalExpr::new(vec![], lit(true) as Arc<dyn PhysicalExpr>);
+
+        // Different instances should NOT be equal even with same expression
+        // because they have independent inner Arcs (different update lifecycles)
+        assert!(
+            !filter1.eq(&filter2),
+            "Different instances should not be equal (identity-based)"
+        );
+
+        // Self-equality should hold
+        assert!(filter1.eq(&filter1), "Self-equality should hold");
+    }
+
+    /// Test that hash is stable for the same filter instance.
+    /// After the fix, hash uses Arc::as_ptr which is pointer-based.
+    #[test]
+    fn test_hash_stable_for_same_instance() {
+        use std::collections::hash_map::DefaultHasher;
+        use std::hash::{Hash, Hasher};
+
+        let filter =
+            DynamicFilterPhysicalExpr::new(vec![], lit(true) as Arc<dyn PhysicalExpr>);
+
+        // Compute hash twice for the same instance
+        let hash1 = {
+            let mut h = DefaultHasher::new();
+            filter.hash(&mut h);
+            h.finish()
+        };
+        let hash2 = {
+            let mut h = DefaultHasher::new();
+            filter.hash(&mut h);
+            h.finish()
+        };
+
+        assert_eq!(hash1, hash2, "Same instance should have stable hash");
+
+        // Update the expression
+        filter
+            .update(lit(false) as Arc<dyn PhysicalExpr>)
+            .expect("Update should succeed");
+
+        // Hash should STILL be the same (identity-based)
+        let hash3 = {
+            let mut h = DefaultHasher::new();
+            filter.hash(&mut h);
+            h.finish()
+        };
+
+        assert_eq!(
+            hash1, hash3,
+            "Hash should be stable after update (identity-based)"
+        );
+    }
 }