Network Scene Transitioning Issue

[Mid-D-Man]

Well this is more of a question and an issue sort of deal, so ive been using this package for a while now and ive made some drastic changes for it to fit my game, now almost everything works however i have two primary issues bugging me so in my game after the lobby count down finishes up players are supposed to be moved to a gameplay scene and i know im to use the network scene manager and i do however currently most of the time when users are moved to the scene the network manager never starts and we seem to loose relay connection, i made a script that dosent get destoyed to keep track of the relay code and it still has the same issue so my question is im i supposed to load scene single or aditive then unload the lobby scene. then my second issue is with the ready button even if i go in a lobby alone and click on it instaed of instantly starting the count down it says waiting for players.... even though there is only one player i have to click on,off,on,off until the countdown starts, so if anyone can assist me and point me to the right direction that will be greatly appritiated and if u need the code im working with please just ask