Tabs module (and update module): rationalise mutable state

[tomcl]

To keep things clean all mutable state should be in one place. The DOM makes mutable state, but using it as is done now to store extra info about files loaded is not good.

I suggest: keep master copy of all the tab state in F# mutable variables. Have a single update function that will render all current state correctly - creating or changing tab content as needed. When changing state alter the F# mutables then call the update function. Redo the code using functional abstraction to compress it. It will be easier to do this than write a lot of separate "change DOM state" code in response to various state changes.

Nearly all state can be handled like this but the buffer contents have to be kept with the master copy in the editor.

[tomcl]

This is now partly done, however the code still is messy.